How Do I Know if Someone Is Interested Over Text?

The clearest sign someone is interested over text is effort that matches yours — they reply in a reasonable time, ask questions back, and keep the conversation alive without you carrying it. Interest shows up in the pattern, not any single message.

Green flags

• They ask you questions, not just answer yours.
• They reply at a consistent pace and pick the thread back up.
• They reference earlier things you said — they're paying attention.
• They tease, joke, or flirt rather than keeping it flat.
• They suggest or warm to plans instead of dodging them.

Yellow flags (mixed signals)

• One-word replies, but fast — they may be busy, not bored.
• They go quiet for a day, then re-engage warmly — inconsistent, not necessarily uninterested.
• Lots of replies, zero plans — enjoying attention, not chasing a date.

Red flags

• You're always the one starting the conversation.
• Replies get shorter every exchange.
• They never move toward meeting up.

How to test it (without being weird)

Make a low-pressure plan and watch the response. Genuine interest finds a way; disinterest finds an excuse.

Conversation Read — Interest 78% · Momentum: Steady · What's happening: they ask questions back and reply fast, but no plan has been floated. Best move: suggest something specific. Reply (Most like you): "We clearly need to settle the pizza-topping debate in person — Saturday?"

Where Ulet fits

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